Conversation - Part 1 (On friendship)

Me: "Why is it so that sometimes fight erupts even between the best of friends? Is it lack of understanding, or lack of trust between them?"

Anwesha: "Hell, no, there can never be lack of understanding between true friends."

Me: "Still, the worst fight, worst quarrel happens always between best friends. you can never quarrel to a great extent with an unknown person or an acquaintance. You can check history. There are so many instances. It goes even till harming to the core. Why, why do you always fight with your best friends? You do all kind of nonsense with them .. which should not be there .."

Anwesha: "You moron, don't understand that much, you can quarrel, can fight, can get angry on those whom you love dearly only, and they are none other than your best friends. You are talking about history, go and check despite thousands of quarrels, fights finally friendship prevails. Does mountain moves when a big thunderstorm occurs, it only establishes its presence even more, only mere trees gets uprooted. The friendship between best friends are like mountains, it gets strengthen only when some quarrel, fight in the form of thunderstorms happens, only non-true friendships like trees can not face the thunderstorms. "

Me: "But, its so depressing, every time I fight with my best friends, I lose my sanity, I curse myself why I did that, I do not forgive myself even though mistakes might be from either side. How to cope with this?"

Anwesha: "Whatever happens happens, that is part of friendship only. Small fights, even sometimes bigger ones keep on happening. No one is culprit in that. One should not think or get bogged down by those. It should only strengthen the bond forever. And you know, best friends do not care about it, they bypass the thunderstorms like passers by, and keep their head up like mountains. Its unmitigated. As long as you do not keep on regretting about the incidents, nothing will happen. The root of their understanding, trust can never be forsaken. You might have even fought for silly things, might have intentionally hurt the other, buts that's the part of a package named as 'true friendship'. Think that every quarrel is one more layer of plaster to your friendship. Just forget the past and go on."

P.S. Isn't is very true. So I have started forgiving myself and forgetting the past. I am looking forward to the brighter sunrise after every dark night.

My little sister (contd..)

Dearest readers, as I had mentioned in my last blog, I had found an adorable little sister. I am naming her as "Anwesha" (This is not her real name, though her name also starts with 'A', but I will keep her real name anonymous). The reason for selecting the name "Anwesha" is her characteristics. She is always in the midst of the quest for something or other.

She is affectionate, sympathetic, tender, warm and kind hearted. She is passionate about few things, but she does value for others passions too. Words are feebler than snow flakes, she can never hurt her enemies too.

(Though recently we fought over many things, sometimes to some extreme too, but hey, who doont fight, at the end after all she is my mini sister. I can bear all fight with her and I know she can too.)

But what I like most about her is her intelligent, humorous, and childsh innocent remarks about topics that we discuss.

Her remarks will be part of my subsequent blogs regularly as opinions.

Welcome "Anwesha", welcome to my blogging world. I am keeping the right to put your remarks (might be distorted sometimes to suit my need [overall context I will keep the same]) in my blog. Your remarks will be part of my blogs. Welcome again.

My little sister

For last few months, I have found a little sister. And today I am going to describe about her. I adore her very much, and she has now become an integral part of my day to day life and she is amongst my best friends too.

She is little naughty, extremely caring, full of enthusiasm and energy always. Ask her anything, any help, she will do for sure. I met her long back .. but just friendship to sisterhood transformation took some time, probably years.

She is not my sister by birth, but she is so much like my cute little naughty childish sister (well well well, she is not childish always, she has a very deeper understanding of life, she can advise you for sure if it is needed). But she is just like my sister in my imagination, my dream, sweet, charming and adorable, like a little sweet spring running through a beautiful grassy field in a bright sunny day.

Lazy to the core, sleepy sleepy look, too much sincere in work, understanding, caring, also sometimes ultra busy, running from here to there, undecided, little worried look, again sometimes in the midst of a laugh riot, uncontrollable excitement .. all conglomerated in a single personality.

She may be weak physically, but with immense mental strength she overcomes that weakness effortlessly.

She is very very understanding and practical to the core, but sometimes knowingly kiddish, will keep on continuing on her kiddish behavior until finally she decides to get away with it. Needs a little encouragement sometimes, a small pat in the back, (she can give encouragement for me always).

Coming to eating, she behaves like my mom always, never satisfied with my food,and feels that I am underfed. But whatever may be, she takes care of my food.

I have my share of arguments with her, sometimes amusing, sometimes sad, sometimes angry, sometimes heartbroken, I have had all feelings, but at the end, its always back to normal, my little sister as sweet as honey, charming and cute.

Now that I have found her finally, I am so so happy about it.

She would be always part of my life from now on, my adorable sister. I am not going to giver her identity to you now, you have to find out yourself.

P.S. This is not imaginary, its a true story of my life. I am going to write more stories about her soon. Keep reading this blog.